Ego Is the Enemy
Impressing people is utterly different from being truly impressive.
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
Most trouble is temporary . . . unless you make that not so. Recovery is not grand, it’s one step in front of the other. Unless your cure is more of the disease.
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
What is your purpose? What are you here to do? Because purpose helps you answer the question “To be or to do?“ quite easily.
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
You know what is a better response to an attack or a slight or something you don’t like? Love. That’s right, love. For the neighbor who won’t turn down the music. For the parent that let you down. For the bureaucrat who lost your paperwork. For the group that rejects you. For the critic who attacks you. The former partner who stole your business
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Merkel is firm, clear, and patient. She’s willing to compromise
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
He will face a battle he knows not, he will ride a road he knows not.
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
An amateur is defensive. The professional finds learning (and even, occasionally, being shown up) to be enjoyable; they like being challenged and humbled, and engage in education as an ongoing and endless process.
Ryan Holiday • Ego Is the Enemy
Research shows that while goal visualization is important, after a certain point our mind begins to confuse it with actual progress. The same goes for verbalization. Even talking aloud to ourselves while we work through difficult problems has been shown to significantly decrease insight and breakthroughs. After spending so much time thinking,
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The pretense of knowledge is our most dangerous vice, because it prevents us from getting any better. Studious self-assessment is the antidote.