Don't postpone joy
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Don't postpone joy
Joy is not a function of a life free of friction and frustration, but a function of focus — an inner elevation by the fulcrum of choice. So often, it is a matter of attending to what Hermann Hesse called, as the world was about to come unworlded by its first global war, “the little joys”;
Maria Popova
instead of deferring all your fulfillment to the future.
The shortcut to fulfillment is to gradually let go of reasons and conditions to be met before being happy and aiming directly for the feeling you would like.