Don't Let Her Lead

a good follower. Because that is what good leaders do. But why is it that the man leads, and the woman follows, instead of the reverse? Because it is in our genes. It is hardwired for this to be the natural way relationships function. A woman can lead, and she can learn to become good at it. She may become a better leader than her man, or better th

is energetically leaving it up to her man to decide what to do. She is not trying to assert herself in any way. There are only four ways a woman can express herself in a way that will inspire your devotion as a man: Vulnerably expressing her 'need' as

expressing them when she states these problems without trying to get any outcome. She is submitting to what is,

men how to become a devotional leader, the kind of man who leads out of love. The kind of men that self-respecting women love to follow.

always that obvious, it would be very easy to stop and you wouldn't need an entire book on the subject. All you would need is to grow some balls. But it is almost never that obvious.

man to give her an amazing experience is not weak. Not in a dance, and not in a relationship. A woman is weak only when she follows a leader who doesn't care about her

frustration.” “I feel sad.” “I feel very anxious right now.” When a woman expresses a feeling vulnerably, she is not trying to get an outcome. She is communicating what is in her heart by exposing it to you, which is extremely vulnerable. The most vulnerable way to share feelings which taps a woman most deeply into her heart is with “I feel” statem

” (vulnerable) instead of “Come pick me up.” When a woman expresses a problem vulnerably, she is not trying to get an outcome. She is communicating that she needs help, which is vulnerable to express.

apart. It just does not work. Similarly, if the man is passive and doesn't lead, or is not paying attention to how his woman is