Don't Let Her Lead

is energetically leaving it up to her man to decide what to do. She is not trying to assert herself in any way. There are only four ways a woman can express herself in a way that will inspire your devotion as a man: Vulnerably expressing her 'need' as

always that obvious, it would be very easy to stop and you wouldn't need an entire book on the subject. All you would need is to grow some balls. But it is almost never that obvious.

it is your greatest need. It might be suppressed, in large part because whenever your woman leads, it kills your desire to devote

men how to become a devotional leader, the kind of man who leads out of love. The kind of men that self-respecting women love to follow.

frustration.” “I feel sad.” “I feel very anxious right now.” When a woman expresses a feeling vulnerably, she is not trying to get an outcome. She is communicating what is in her heart by exposing it to you, which is extremely vulnerable. The most vulnerable way to share feelings which taps a woman most deeply into her heart is with “I feel” statem

by initiating contact. He must lead everything until the day the relationship ends, from breakup or death. Does this sound really sexist, unfair, and ridiculous to you? I would have thought the same thing if I was reading this book five years ago, or even two years ago. I might have been tempted to throw it out and read something else.

I didn't understand how men and women are fundamentally different and also perfectly complementary

and many of my male clients are seeing the same results as they do their own work. And it is possible for you to experience this with your woman too.

a good follower. Because that is what good leaders do. But why is it that the man leads, and the woman follows, instead of the reverse? Because it is in our genes. It is hardwired for this to be the natural way relationships function. A woman can lead, and she can learn to become good at it. She may become a better leader than her man, or better th