Very few amazing things happen when you are sitting home by yourself – miracles happen in the context of people. Abundance thinking opens you up to miracles. The more time you spend outside your house talking to people, the more you increase the potential for great things to happen.

Never let a woman dictate the terms of the relationship – ever! As odd as this sounds, letting the woman set the tone is unloving. We tend to think that relationships are the area of feminine expertise, but if you let a woman climb into the driver’s seat of the relationship, you’ll never get her out and she will quickly lose her attraction to you.

How You Think is How You Are What you think about and believe to be true is what you will create. Your mindset will determine how you interact with women and how they respond to you.

•A man who takes good care of himself. •A man who is honest and transparent. •A man who can reveal what he is thinking and feeling. •A man who has integrity. •A man who can admit fault and laugh at himself. •A man who embraces his masculinity. •A man who has good guy friends. •A man who is comfortable with his sexuality.

It is important to smash this myth about women. In general, women don’t want to be in charge of the relationship. When a man lets the woman set the tone of a relationship, he is doing the exact opposite of what will make her feel secure. Women consistently tell me that they want a man who will set the tone and take the lead – and not just in

One reason women seem complicated to men is because the male brain and female brain are fundamentally different. In general, women have much more access to the right hemisphere of their brains than men do. The right side is the emotional side of the brain. Therefore, a woman’s thinking and logic tends to be influenced more by feelings than a man’s

healthy woman wants a guy who is real, honest, and confident in himself – not a perfect guy. Women consistently tell me they don’t care that much what a man looks like or how much money he makes. What do women tell me they want? A man who is fun to be with, who will set the tone, and whom they can trust.

Testing projects confidence more effectively than anything else I know. Since confidence is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs for women, testing for interest is the best way to get a woman’s attention and keep it.

Rejection doesn’t hurt. It is just what you tell yourself about the “no” that messes with your head.