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You shift from expansion mode into protection mode:

• You start over-planning a new initiative instead of finishing the current one.


• You add work to your plate under the guise of “staying sharp.”


• You retreat emotionally from intimate conversations that feel too exposing.


• You delay launching, shipping, asking, sharing — waiting until it’s “perfect.”

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You want unconditional love but only present a conditional self.

(Thus ensuring unconditional love is never actually offered.)

Fear of Being a Burden: Learned from caretakers who silently resented the weight of emotional or financial dependence.

Self-Repair Mechanism: The more suffocated you feel, the more you over-give — as if that’s the path to freedom.

You chase freedom but create prisons of responsibility.

(Taking on endless obligations to prove value.)

The Heroic Performer

• Attributes: Unstoppable. Competent. Admirable. Tireless. Wise beyond your years.


• Secret Flaw: The Hero must never show weakness, fear, boredom, or ordinary need — or risk losing the crowd's applause (and thus, survival).

Your internal mythos demands relentless motion, improvement, and emotional sterilization.

Self-Repair Mechanism: The more unseen you feel, the more you polish the mask — thinking that’s the path to love.

Protection Function: They shield you from abandonment, rejection, and shame by keeping you in the "valuable" performance lane.