Beginners

For most of us, the beginner stage is something to be gotten through as quickly as possible, like a socially awkward skin condition. But I want to suggest that even if we’re only passing through, we should pay particular attention to this moment. For once it goes, it’s hard to get back.

When it comes to learning, variability is the key.

Being a good parent, like any learning process, requires thoughtful practice.

When we become skilled at something, it becomes automatic. We don’t have to think much about it, because our brain, running on virtual autopilot, is constantly making predictions—and most of its predictions are true.

Humans seem to perform better in the presence of others.

Letting someone else’s ideas about performance stop you from trying something means relinquishing your freedom.

“five-stage model of adult skill acquisition.” From a humble “novice,” skill learners progressed to the “advanced beginner” stage, then on to a sort of midpoint of “competence,” before climbing further to “proficiency,” finally summiting at “expertise.”

9. Goals are good, but keep your eyes open for opportunity.

As you try to learn something, you shouldn’t lose sight of all the interesting little detours along the way.