This will always be your struggle whether you are twenty-one or fifty-one. I know this from experience. When I quit the New York Times to be a full-time mother, the voices of the world said that I was nuts. When I quit it again to be a full-time novelist, they said I was nuts again. But I am not nuts. I am happy. I am successful on my own terms.... See more

As unpredictable as it is, this is a revolutionary time. One in which you can make the world fit you, instead of trying to fit into the world. People will always get up on stages and sit behind desks to tell you how things are. But they will never be able to tell you how things can be. That part’s on you to determine.