
Abandon Me: Memoirs

It was the first time I thought, I will do anything. Her withdrawal opened a chasm in me, and I would do anything to fill it.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
their textures—delicate as sloughed sheaths of faith—were enough to convince me that books were once bodies, that the bestial and the divine can reside in the same place.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
I did not choose my female body. But I chose every image painted on it.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
The Minotaurs we need to rescue are never our half brothers. They are always those monstrous parts of ourselves.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
Falling in love is always the fear and promise of being hurt, of being healed.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
That is the endless pleasure and frustration of the writer and the lover: to reach and reach and never become.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
It would have been tempting, once, to make myself the hero of this scene—to admire my own power to rescue my brother. But the real power here is his, in knowing what he needed and in asking for my help.
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
Jorge Luis Borges wrote that “To be in love is to create a religion whose god is fallible.”
Melissa Febos • Abandon Me: Memoirs
We coo at pregnant bellies, sanctify that most blatant acknowledgement of sex, but shame this ephemeral evidence.