A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Having to Talk About It

The first agony is the agony of greed.

And this brings in the third agony, the agony of shame. The agony of shame happens because we regret it when we turn to anger.

This brings us to the fourth agony, the agony of loneliness.

Most married men have lost their power, and their wives have had to take over the Alpha role within the marriage, which leaves them feeling empty inside. Feminine energy naturally wants to remain in the feminine. It’s where she’s free and protected by a masculine source.

Let’s review the steps of The Clean Slate Letter: Step 1: You are going to sit down and write a letter listing out your shortcomings during the entirety of your marriage in more of a story format rather than bullet points. Remember, this has nothing to do with anything that she has done. You cannot use this letter to blame her. Use the conversation

you write something like this: I realized that over the last few years, I have been reacting and losing my cool when we get into a disagreement, which has only pushed us further apart. That’s never been my intention. I imagine being in a relationship where you’re constantly arguing would be unfulfilling, and you didn’t sign up for this. I haven’t s

Be careful not to say, “I know how you feel.” This will likely offend her right away, and it doesn’t really acknowledge her feelings in any way. What you want to say is: I’d imagine that you must feel so_________and________…

To most women, connection is like oxygen--without it, they die. If you don’t have a deep connection with your wife, then she feels as if she’s dying. Get it?

This brings us to the fifth agony in No Man’s Land. The agony of uncertainty.