Greta Greda

Meta's rivals Snap and TikTok settled with the plaintiff before the trial kicked off last week.

Considering this, the current state of the world seems to be putting many of us (particularly straight men in my observations) in a state of fear and fragility. Typically, male clients who see Femdom’s possess high power jobs that enforce patriarchy onto them, just as much as it does the docile housewife. Feeling boxed into an idea of ‘man’ (the... See more

the present with pop culture’s illusionary accessibility to BDSM

FKA Twigs’ (the OG fetishist of sex workers and yes I am a hater)

There's something funny about having to censor the word porn and not the word torture. Really makes you think that we live in a society.

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Research shows that people with a lower need for closure — those who tolerate uncertainty — process complexity more effectively*. They don’t flatten others into caricatures to make sense of them. They can understand that someone can be both loving and destructive. Kind and cruel. A source of joy and a source of pain.

They can understand that someone can be both loving and destructive. Kind and cruel. A source of joy and a source of pain.

Ambiguity is uncomfortable. It’s an itch you can’t scratch. But research suggests that rushing to resolve uncertainty limits our cognitive complexity. When we force an ending before the story is done, we shut down the part of ourselves that can hold multiple, conflicting truths at once.

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