Anja S
@artvert
Anja S
A partnership requires attentiveness, effort, curiosity, humility, and the desire to learn what love looks like to your partner.
the brain does not keep time like a clock. it keeps time through rhythm and sensation. through the memory of what happened when something felt like this.
in predictive processing, one of the most accepted models in neuroscience, the brain is not passively receiving input. it is constantly predicting what comes next, based on what came before.
every
... See morewe often speak of trauma as an event, but neurologically, it is a loop.
trauma is not only what happened, it is also what didn’t get to happen next.
the movement interrupted. the touch withdrawn. the scream swallowed. the emotion that never reached completion.
a pattern learned by a nervous system that had to act faster than it could understand.
... See moreIf Nike announced that they were opening a hotel, you’d have a pretty good guess about what it would be like. But if Hyatt announced that they were going to start making shoes, you would have NO IDEA WHATSOEVER what those shoes would be like. That’s because Nike owns a brand and Hyatt simply owns real estate.